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He Hates Me, He Hates Me Not There is only one reason someone would say they hate you. He is angry about something. Now, anger is a confusing emotion, because it is actually a secondary emotion. It does not usually exist on its own. It is a reaction. Usually, anger manifests as a reaction to feelings of pain or fear, pain or fear of feeling attacked, feeling rejected, or experiencing loss. However, anger cannot exist without a target. If you can imagine anger as an arrow, the feelings of pain or fear are what draws back the string. They provide the power behind the arrow. The target will either be the person they believe is the source of the pain or themselves. Either way, anger is being used as a tool, like an arrow can be used as a weapon. The goal being to cut off the source of the pain or to distract from feeling it. If your ex has said he hates you, then you would be the target and you can bet that your ex said it when he was feeling attacked or rejected. “I...

Success . It’s something we all view differently, and yet we all  want  it. The good news? Success is totally attainable if you start practicing the  habits of successful people . Let’s dive in and look at the four things that successful people do differently and how to start incorporating these habits into your own life. Let’s Define Success Success means so many different things to different people, but the general idea is that success is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose, or the attainment of popularity or profit. Honestly, success is different for everyone. While some deem success as rolling in money, another may find success in a potty trained toddler and two nights in a row of actual sleep. Regardless of your take on success, one thing is true… the people that find their version of success have a few things in common. What Do Successful People Do Differently? Simply put, successful people have four habits that they make a prior...

Telegram, the WhatsApp rival that gained 3 million followers when Facebook had a day-long outage this month, has come out with a significant privacy-focused update. As of the latest version of Telegram — available on iOS, Android, and via a web client — you can now delete messages for all participants in your chats, irrespective of who sent them or when they were sent. Previously, Telegram allowed users a 48-hour window in which they could delete their own sent messages, both on their device and for others. Now, the time limit has been dropped, and you can wipe an entire chat history clean on your device and on anyone else’s who was part of the chat. While this may seem like a drastic measure, Telegram founder Pavel Durov justifies it as an act to help people take control of their digital history: An old message you already forgot about can be taken out of context and used against you decades later. A hasty text you sent to a girlfriend in school can come haunt you in ...

A teenage mother has been left devastated after her baby’s head was decapitated while giving birth. Kagiso Kgatla, 19, was just six months pregnant when she suffered the traumatic delivery and lost her child in Tambo Memorial Hospital, in Boksburg, South Africa. She reportedly had to wait another 24 hours before the rest of her baby’s body could be removed from her womb. Kagiso is now planning to sue the doctors involved and is demanding answers over the botched birth as she struggles to come to terms with her ordeal. She told eNCA: ‘A doctor came and said I should push. I pushed and pushed. Nothing. ‘He inserted his hands and said I should try again but still there was nothing. ‘He also said he could see the baby’s head. Then he asked for those big spoons. ‘That’s when my baby’s head came out, but only the head. ‘The body remained inside.’ The foetus had a heartbeat before the delivery, eNCA reported. She told the news channel through tears: ‘I am not okay. I am not coping at a...

Does He Miss Me? If you are asking this question, the answer depends on how long you have been together, how surrounded by people he is, and how long you have left him alone. If you two have been together for three months or less, he certainly could be missing you if you have only been in no contact for a few days, but it will likely take a few weeks or often more. If you have been with your boyfriend for a year or more, then sometimes it takes longer for him to miss you unless he fears that he is losing you. If he fears he is losing you and loses the ability to expect you to reach out to him, then there is a high likelihood that he does miss you. To help make the answer to the question, “Does he miss me,” a “yes,” read all of this article to learn how you can use the right kinds of pressure to get him to miss you and to miss you enough to reach out to you to get back together. How Can I Get Him To Miss Me? By using the no contact rule, you attack the breakup with...

Nigerian lady calls boyfriend scum, says he cheated on her with her friend A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to narrate how her boyfriend cheated on her with her friend The lady revealed that she found her boyfriend in bed with her friend Twitter user noted that she had caught him in an attempt to surprise him at home A young Nigerian lady who had attempted to surprise her boyfriend at home has narrated how she caught him cheating on her. The lady revealed that her boyfriend had cheated on her with her friend. The lady who shared the sad news on popular micro-blogging platform, Twitter, explained that she had gone to her boyfriends apartment without giving him any notice because she wanted to surprise him. On getting there, the lady identified by her Twitter revealed that she was shocked to find him in bed with a lady who is her friend. She wrote: I jus got to my boyfriends apartmen dis nite, tho I didnt tell him I was coming, wanted to surprise him, only for m...

The Yola Division of the Federal High Court has asked the Independent National Electoral Commission, INEC to withdraw the certificate of Return issued to the All Progressives Congress, APC candidate, Abdurrauf Abubakar Modibbo, who won the election to represent Yola South/Yola North/Girei Federal Constituency. The Presiding judge, Justice Abdulaziz Anka on Wednesday ordered that Abdurrauf who was elected on 23rd of February should vacate the seat for the runner up on the ground that the primary election that produced him was inconclusive. The suit was filed by the current lawmaker representing the constituency, Lawal Abubakar Garba who lost the primary election to Abdurrauf. He joined APC, Abdurrauf and the INEC as first, second and third respondents respectively. “I hereby order that the 2nd respondent, Abdurrauf Abdulkadir Modibbo to vacate the seat for the member House of Representatives for Yola North/Yola South/Girei Constituency in the National Assembly”. “I he...