Sex & Relationship Three things men want in bed
The idea is that a man doesn’t need much prodding and that when it comes to sex, the average man is always revving to go.
However, sex experts are saying this isn’t true!
This being the case, the question is, what do men really want?
Sex experts say their male clients wish their partners would, on occasion, do the following three things…
• Initiate sex: Allow him to settle in after he comes back from the day’s pursuit. As you watch the TV after dinner, casually put his hand high up on your thigh. You may also make the first move when you’re undressing for bed. All these gestures help to level the playing field sexually and take some of the pressure off, says Lebowitz. After all, who doesn’t like feeling desired?
• Wear that dress: According to clinical sexologist with the Sage Institute for Family Development in Boca Raton, Florida, Lawrence Siege, men love to see their women well dressed. “It frustrates guys that you’ll primp for your girls’ outing but remain indifferent when you’re with him,” Siegel says. Dressing up occasionally shows you still want to impress him — which reassures him and makes him feel more masculine and sexual.
• Tell him what you like: Here’s a paradox: The more settled you feel in a relationship, the harder it can be to talk about sex, notes Lebowitz. That’s because the stakes are higher. You don’t want to hurt your guy’s feelings or make him feel inadequate. So, spin it positively —tell him what felt good, what move you want to try next. Everything combined will help in kindling the sparks in bed!
However, sex experts are saying this isn’t true!
Co-director and male sexuality specialist at The Intimacy
Institute in Boulder, Colorado, Daniel Lebowitz, says when it comes to
sex, men need plenty of assistance from their sex partners.
And, needless to say, when a man’s satisfaction goes up, so does his woman’s.This being the case, the question is, what do men really want?
Sex experts say their male clients wish their partners would, on occasion, do the following three things…
• Initiate sex: Allow him to settle in after he comes back from the day’s pursuit. As you watch the TV after dinner, casually put his hand high up on your thigh. You may also make the first move when you’re undressing for bed. All these gestures help to level the playing field sexually and take some of the pressure off, says Lebowitz. After all, who doesn’t like feeling desired?
• Wear that dress: According to clinical sexologist with the Sage Institute for Family Development in Boca Raton, Florida, Lawrence Siege, men love to see their women well dressed. “It frustrates guys that you’ll primp for your girls’ outing but remain indifferent when you’re with him,” Siegel says. Dressing up occasionally shows you still want to impress him — which reassures him and makes him feel more masculine and sexual.
• Tell him what you like: Here’s a paradox: The more settled you feel in a relationship, the harder it can be to talk about sex, notes Lebowitz. That’s because the stakes are higher. You don’t want to hurt your guy’s feelings or make him feel inadequate. So, spin it positively —tell him what felt good, what move you want to try next. Everything combined will help in kindling the sparks in bed!
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