What Should I Do If My Exboyfriend Says He Hates Me?
He Hates Me, He Hates Me Not There is only one reason someone would say they hate you. He is angry about something. Now, anger is a confusing emotion, because it is actually a secondary emotion. It does not usually exist on its own. It is a reaction. Usually, anger manifests as a reaction to feelings of pain or fear, pain or fear of feeling attacked, feeling rejected, or experiencing loss. However, anger cannot exist without a target. If you can imagine anger as an arrow, the feelings of pain or fear are what draws back the string. They provide the power behind the arrow. The target will either be the person they believe is the source of the pain or themselves. Either way, anger is being used as a tool, like an arrow can be used as a weapon. The goal being to cut off the source of the pain or to distract from feeling it. If your ex has said he hates you, then you would be the target and you can bet that your ex said it when he was feeling attacked or rejected. “I...